HEAR

Honest Expression And Reflection

A mindful ritual for couples – neurodivergent-friendly, made for everyone.

Not therapy. Not date night. Less awkward than you’d think.

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An app by Studio Brainfog

When did you lastreally talk?

Not about logistics. About you.

HEAR guides you through a spoken reflection, taking turns — one topic, clear roles, a gentle timer. The full ritual usually takes 40–60 minutes. The quick round: 10–15. As often as you need.

Themes

What you’ll talk about

Three topics, one ritual. You choose what’s up today.

Where did we lose each other? Looking at a rift without making it bigger.

→Connection & Appreciation
→Overwhelm & Regulation
→Misunderstandings & Clarity
HEAR App – Connection & Appreciation

Start with “Connection & Appreciation.”
This round stays free forever – no subscription needed, as often as you like.

For both of you

And what if one of you is skeptical?

Usually one person is more convinced than the other. That’s normal – and HEAR is built exactly for that.

You don’t need to prepare anything.
You don’t need to find a solution.
You can’t do it wrong.
And it ends.

And if today doesn’t work, you reschedule. No discussion needed.

The Ritual

One flow. Three steps.

HEAR holds the structure so you don’t have to — the rhythm is yours.

One speaks, one listens10 minutes

One speaks, one listens

A short prompt sets the topic — concrete, never abstract. You read it together and let it settle for a moment. No one speaks yet.

Reflecting15 minutes

Reflect back what you heard

Five minutes of speaking — without interruption. Then the other puts into their own words what landed. Then you switch.

Landing together5 minutes

Land together

One thing each of you appreciates. One thing each of you will try. HEAR writes it down — the session ends gently, not in a solution but in a memory.

Frequently asked questions

What does HEAR cost?
You can go through the full ritual once for free – no account, no trial period, no credit card. After that, the short “Connection & Appreciation” round stays free forever, as often as you like. For everything else: €6.99 a month, €35.99 for six months, or €59.99 a year – that’s €5.00 a month. Cancel anytime.
What makes HEAR different from other couples apps?
Most couples apps just give you a question to talk about — what happens next is up to you. HEAR structures the whole exchange: one person speaks without interruption, the other reflects back in their own words what they heard. No scores, no comparing you against each other — just a structure that makes sure listening actually happened. And HEAR doesn’t just answer what you talk about, but what happens after: one person finishes speaking, the other reflects back what came through. Only then do you switch.
How does HEAR handle our data?
Nothing you say ever leaves your phone. HEAR has no server. Your sessions stay on the device and are never transmitted anywhere. The app’s only network contact happens through Apple when you subscribe — and no content is part of that.
Is HEAR right for us?
If you want to talk more openly but don’t always know how — yes. HEAR is for couples who want to truly listen to each other, not just respond.
Do we need to be neurodivergent to use HEAR?
No. HEAR is built for every couple. Its neurodivergent-friendly design isn’t incidental, though: it draws on years of coaching experience with ADHD and autism — clear structure, one step at a time, no distractions. What was built for neurodivergent couples ends up helping everyone.
How often should we use HEAR?
There’s no fixed rule. Use HEAR whenever you feel the need — the rhythm is yours. And if you don’t have an hour: the short round takes 10 to 15 minutes and stays free forever.

Ready to truly
listen to each other?

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